Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Random musings

Thank you Bev for the opportunity to post thoughts and stories about Mom here. I am so thankful for my Aunties (technically Anties since they're from the north!) who have tirelessly updated this blog, and to all the friends who have followed Mom on her journey and offered words of support and encouragement here. It is truly a place where we find unity and comfort, even when we are far apart.

It's funny...Mom was never far from my thoughts, but now she is ever-present. When I start the car in the morning, I hear her telling me how to merge into traffic (and shrieking when I didn't do it right the first few times). When I grocery shop, I hear recipes she shared in my head...and her laughter when I called her a few months ago to ask how to make sweet tea. In fact, every time I make hot tea, I see her smiling and shaking her head. (Many of you know that I was less than fond of it as a child. Her life would have been infinitely easier if I had embraced it earlier.)

Maddie and Ella Kate keep asking me to tell them stories. There are so many to tell. Most of them involve laughter and hugs...always hugs. I look forward to reading stories that others remember about Mom. Thank you all for sharing her life.

4 comments:

  1. I know what you mean Crystal. One day last week I was really having trouble refocusing on work & stuff. I could hear her saying "you really need to get back to work." Isn't that hilarious! I'll be posting some stories for the girls soon. Can't wait to see you guys again!

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  2. I'm with ya on that, Niece. I only thought she was always on my mind before, but now it seems almost nonstop, and I don't mind one bit. She still makes me smile every day.

    Love you bunches!
    Antie B

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  3. Crystal,

    I'll call myself Auntie Lorelei (not Antie, not from the north, LOL), because someone actually thought I was your Mom's sister. I was amused by that...I AM her sister in Christ!! You speak of your Mom's hugs...that is one of the BEST memories I have of her. She loved to give hugs, and loved to accept hugs! I cannot wait to see her in Heaven, because I know she's going to greet each and every one of us with one. I hope you, Rachel and Monica will post lots of memories of your sweet Mom, because I will enjoy reading them. She was the BEST friend a girl could ever have! I loved her dearly, and still do!!

    Lorelei

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  4. I have a very precious memory of Donna that I would like to share with everyone. Of course as all the family knows, I live in Texas so I do not get to see my family members very often. I have in fact not seen Donna since the surprise birthday party that they had for my Aunt Ellie (Mom to Donna) when she turned 70.
    Several years had gone by and one Mother's Day recently (about 2 years ago) I got an email from Donna just out of the blue. For those of you who don't know me, my only son passed away in 1990 when he was 2 years old. Donna sent me an email for Mother's Day and just told me that she was thinking about me and that she was lifting me up in spirit and in thoughts. It touched me to the very core of my being and I will absolutely never forget it. We connected with each other just like it had been yesterday when we had last seen each other and were making plans to try to visit with each other in the near future. Well, that visit will not take place on this earth-but I know for sure without a doubt-we WILL see each other again-and we will laugh and hug and dance and be together forever in the kingdom of God-HALLELUJIA!!! Love, Sherry

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